What can be Explore
The realm of BDSM is quite vast in scope and can be quite be quite daunting to the beginner. Most of what I want to do with training is to help you explore everything I can that interests you. As to what is out there, well the only limit to that is your imagination, though obviously my ability to help will not be able to reach all of your imagination. (Heck, I can't even get all of my own done... it's a bit difficult to get a few hours in Zero-g for a bit of fun ;)
For those of you very new or with imaginations that don't know where to start there is a list in the middle of my questionsthat covers a lot of the more common things and themes. It does not however get into depth on many of them, for example humiliation is listed as only public and private. A former sub was very aroused by the idea of being humiliated in front of a few of my friends by having her temperature taken anally or vaginally. This is but one example of where details of your explorations come from you as you know yourself better than I possibly could.
How can I help? To the best of my abilities. My feeling is that this is something you are doing/contemplating because you want to, because you want to feel and experience. I try to help you get the experience that you want. You can describe something to me, and I will try to figure out how to do it... or when... and certainly things will not always go exactly as you imagined for part of what a sub/slave wants is the feeling of not being in control, of not knowing what will happen or be asked of her.
I can also help by talking and proposing ideas, discussing scenarios, scenes, ways of thinking that might not be evident to the one being trained. When it does come time to do something, I'm usually confident and capable in whatver I have tried doing and I am sensitive to the feelings of the sub I am working with at the moment. Since it's not about me, I am going to be able to listen more attentively and react less emotionally than someone playing with you and wanting a relationship.
What matters to me in training is helping you to explore and experience your fantasies and desires. What they are, how far they go and ultimately what you want to explore of them is up to you.
For those of you very new or with imaginations that don't know where to start there is a list in the middle of my questionsthat covers a lot of the more common things and themes. It does not however get into depth on many of them, for example humiliation is listed as only public and private. A former sub was very aroused by the idea of being humiliated in front of a few of my friends by having her temperature taken anally or vaginally. This is but one example of where details of your explorations come from you as you know yourself better than I possibly could.
How can I help? To the best of my abilities. My feeling is that this is something you are doing/contemplating because you want to, because you want to feel and experience. I try to help you get the experience that you want. You can describe something to me, and I will try to figure out how to do it... or when... and certainly things will not always go exactly as you imagined for part of what a sub/slave wants is the feeling of not being in control, of not knowing what will happen or be asked of her.
I can also help by talking and proposing ideas, discussing scenarios, scenes, ways of thinking that might not be evident to the one being trained. When it does come time to do something, I'm usually confident and capable in whatver I have tried doing and I am sensitive to the feelings of the sub I am working with at the moment. Since it's not about me, I am going to be able to listen more attentively and react less emotionally than someone playing with you and wanting a relationship.
What matters to me in training is helping you to explore and experience your fantasies and desires. What they are, how far they go and ultimately what you want to explore of them is up to you.